I think as a human being we all have the right to our own happiness, right? I mean, it’s what I would love to believe. So when I write something silly or even stupid on my Facebook wall, blog and/or Twitter, I’d like to think that I shouldn’t get criticized or yelled at for sharing random personal information about myself.
When people start talking down to me and I have never even said boo to them, I build walls in my head and they usually never come down. I like to think that I give people enough chances before I put up this wall. After 42 years of having people treat me like dirt, the amount of chances a person gets goes down. You have heard of the three strikes law right? Well, I used to give people 3 chances. But then I’ve heard the saying “Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.” So screw 3 strikes, if you are rude to me a second time then that’s it, I’m done. And believe me, when I say to you “I’m done” at the end of an argument, that means I’m finished with you. I may not unfriend you, but I will remove you from any streams so I can’t see what you are saying and I will restrict you from seeing what I say in the future, that way I don’t give you any chances to be rude to me.
Why is it that people are always rude to me though? I never say or do anything bad to anyone. I’m never rude or belligerent with people on purpose. I don’t tell people how to live their lives, so why do people do that to me? I don’t get it. This is my life, I pay the rent, I pay the bills, I buy the groceries, I am who is responsible for my life, not other people, so why do they feel the need to criticize me when I say something that is meaningless to them? I never talk down to people because who the heck am I to do that to them? So who the heck are people to talk down to me? Screw them! Who needs them anyway?
I have built so many walls that if I were building a house, I would have at least 1 floor of a 2 bedroom house completed. I’m not joking either. It sucks that I have to live this way.
I am just venting… sorry you had to see that.