I have been saying “Happy Holidays” my entire life. There have always been cards sold in stores that say “Happy Holidays” and nobody was ever offended before. Now all of a sudden saying “Happy Holidays” seems to be more offensive because people believe there is a war on Christmas and that Atheists are trying to remove “Christ” from Christmas, so if I don’t say “Merry Christmas”, but say “Happy Holidays” instead, then I am part of the problem and get lectured by some religious person who is very upset.
This is how I see it. I have friends who celebrate Hanukkah and friends who celebrate Christmas. I also have friends and family who celebrate Christmas, but not specifically for religious reasons because they are Atheists. So why can’t I say “Happy Holidays” to them without someone yelling at me for not saying “Merry Christmas”? I wouldn’t say “Merry Christmas” to my Jewish friends and I wouldn’t say “Happy Hanukkah” to my Christian friends. Happy Holidays is a happy medium. It’s a way of saying, well, Happy Holidays lol. It’s just words, so why is it so upsetting? I don’t understand.
I am an Atheist and I have celebrated Christmas since I was a baby. I wasn’t always an Atheist, I was baptized when I was a baby and I considered myself to be a Christian when I was growing up. My parents took us to church when we were very young, and I have memories of that, but then they stopped and there is a very funny story of why.
My mother and step father went to my mother’s church which happened to be the Mormon church. The first time he ever went there with her, they asked him to stand up and say his name. He was afraid to say his own last name out of fear of her getting kicked out of the church because they were living together, but they weren’t married. They knew her last name was McDonald, so he used her last name without really thinking it through. The problem with that was, his first name was Ronald. He was so beyond embarrassed when people laughed at him for proudly proclaiming to be Ronald McDonald that we never went to church again as a family.
I went with neighbors to the Salvation Army church when I was in the 6th and 7th grade. I even went to the Salvation Army band camp the summer before I was in the 7th grade. When we lived in Reseda when I was in the 9th grade we rejoined the Mormon Church because they helped us with food bank, but I don’t recall going to church every Sunday, but I do remember going to teen functions, one specific function stands out, it was a dance for the teenagers.
Anyway, I was very religious up until I came out of the closet at 17, well, I was pushed out, then kicked out. People started quoting the bible to let me know I was going to hell for being gay and over the course of a year or two, I became an Atheist. But I never stopped celebrating Christmas because I enjoy decorating the Christmas tree and looking at the lights and having a stocking hung by the fireplace. I enjoy all of the Christmas movies and I love it when my favorite shows have a Christmas episode.
Just because I am an atheist and do not celebrate Christmas for “Christ” doesn’t mean I want Christ to be removed from Christmas. I honestly don’t care what it’s called, I just want to have a happy holiday without being told that I am a part of the war on Christmas just because I am not religious.
So Happy Holidays to you all. Deal with me saying Happy Holidays because it’s just words. If me saying Happy Holidays offends you, get over it!
BTW, the cat in the picture above is our late cat Shanaynay. She passed away in 2009.