Life isn’t fair, is it? Murphy’s law says that if something can go wrong, it will. Well, something is very wrong with how long it is taking to get my surgery. I have been in pain, no, agony for going on 2 months now and I was told I could get surgery to help, yet I don’t see it coming.
I was diagnosed with Sialolithiasis which means my right Parotid gland (saliva gland) has stones in it. You know how you get kidney stones? Well, the saliva gland can get stones too. The problem is that the stones are preventing the saliva from being released into my mouth and that causes it to swell up. I can push on it and I can feel the saliva squirt into my mouth, and that relieves the pressure which is very painful. I have been doing that for years, yes this has been happening to me for many years. I would guess up to 10 years that I can recall. I know it’s more, but I can’t be sure when it began.
So first thing that happened was it started and I waited a few days to call the doctor. I figured that it has happened so many times in my adulthood and that I was almost positive it would go away from pushing on it, but it wasn’t going away, it was just getting worse and worse and there was a blockage preventing the saliva from releasing. I made an appointment which meant I had to wait for a weekend. I went to the doctor and he gave me an antibiotic and saw me again in 7 days. I came back in 7 days and he gave me another antibiotic and told me that I might need surgery. If this antibiotic doesn’t help in another week then I could get surgery if I chose to.
Naturally, it didn’t go away after that 2nd week. In the past it has always gone away after taking the antibiotics, but this one has stayed with me. He sent me to have an ultrasound which showed that I had a stone that was 1cm. Look at your ruler, that’s nearly half an inch. He then referred me to an Ear, Nose, Throat specialist who sent me for an CT scan with contrast which showed that I have multiple stones, not just on the right side, but also on the left. The left side swells up as well, but not as bad as the right side. The doctor said that the left side were much smaller, so it’s not as big of an emergency as the right side is.
The ENT doctor referred me to a surgeon at Kern Medical Center aka KMC which I always joke and call it KFC. He gave me my options and I chose to go to LA, but then changed my mind and wanted to have him do the surgery. Before he can do anything, he needs my original doctor to sign off on it because I have some other health concerns that had to be tested before he would do surgery. My doctor had blood drawn and did an EKG which showed heart trouble. UGH!
I finally went to the heart doctor today and they gave me another EKG and put a heart monitor on me that I have to wear for 24 hours. It has been recording since around 2pm or so. I had to change my physical therapy for my scoliosis issue tomorrow from 10:45am to 2:30pm. I hope that gives them a full 24 hours, but the nurse told me that I could take it off before 24 hours was up if I had to. They also made 2 more appointments for me, one in 2 weeks and then another in October.
October? What? I needed my surgery like a month ago! I’m so sick of this pain. I mean, the pain isn’t as bad as it was for 2 months, but it’s still bad. The pain from my saliva gland makes me think my teeth need to be pulled. I know having my teeth pulled isn’t the answer because that’s not where the pain is coming from, the pain is just travelling to those places. When I don’t have pain in my saliva gland then my teeth are fine. If the problem was my teeth then I would feel the pain in my teeth when I didn’t feel pain in my saliva gland.
So I am hoping that I can get my surgery in October because I don’t think I can wait very much longer after that. I just can’t take it anymore. Nobody should have to live in constant pain every day like this. There really isn’t anything I can do, so I guess I have no choice but to deal with it. I really hope that it gets taken care of soon.